Please help!

[Гость]

Hello.
Excuse me for English, but I do not know Russian (very little). Excuse me if I write to a wrong theme.
My husband is the Buddhist. He very strange also does not eat any animal food. I cook very difficultly.
He reads a Buddhist books, listens Lectures of Dalai-lama and spell mantras at leisure.
He does not pay any attention to me. I live as a maid.
What can I make that he listened to me?
Please help!

[Елена Кшанти]

Please, be not upset so. If he really the Buddhist, in due course when he will see, that donation to a close essence of care and attention it too most, that service to the best philosophical principles it necessarily will change the attitude(relation) to you. Буддистские Lamas speak many, that in the life we necessarily should care of somebody, and it actually is the same practice, as well as reading мантр or meditation.
The Problem here faster that your family was not included in a stage of harmonious development. For this purpose to you probably, too itself would not prevent to esteem philosophy of the Buddhism to understand the husband, and also the literature on sublimation of energy at sex. Why?
If you will know your husband you always will be his close friend is fond of what, and it will be easy for him to discuss with you some questions, and you in case you will not like the Buddhism, can find arguments against it from books on the Buddhism. As if to your matrimonial life if you can supervise and operate the energy he will not be afraid to lose the self energy and your sexual life becomes not only high-grade, but also can even help to promote to him on a spiritual way.
Excuse, my English language too is not perfect.

[Диарус]

Мой англицкий на уровне детсада, но сдается мне, что важ муж лишь играет в буддизм, где вам уготована роль монашеской служки. Было бы целесообразно для вас либо познать все прелести буддистских практик, где муж может выполнять роль посредника. Либо окончательно освободить мужа от вашего умопомрачения и тьмы невежества оставив его на съедение прета, за неумное к вам отношение....(Лена, будьте так добры, перевести это на плохой англицкий, может хоть часть смысла дойдет до бедной женщины...)

[Елена Кшанти]

Izvinite, Diarus, no ya ne mogu eto sdelat, potomu chto bous tem samim razrushit chelovecheskie vzaimootnosheniya.

[Гость]

Dear Лена:
Thanks for the answer.
I am not against the Buddhism. I know many Buddhists/ who eat everything, go to a temple once a week, burn aromas.
Our life was normal. When I have told that I want the child, He began to keep away from me

[Mer]

To: Guest/ Гость

Well, it is possible to react to your letter in a way that:
1. It would be nice for your to know more about Buddhism.
2. Try to share the interests of your husband.
3. And, find a way to talk to him, and discuss your family life style.

Good luck.

P.S. I wonder to know how you -with no Russian language, - was reading the current site, and decided to write here...mmmmm..

Диарусу

Согласна с вашим мнением, и передала смысл и свой смысл в послании выше на том же нужном иностранном языке.

[Диарус]

To: Guest/ Гость

Well, it is possible to react to your letter in a way that:
1. It would be nice for your to know more about Buddhism.
2. Try to share the interests of your husband.
3. And, find a way to talk to him, and discuss your family life style.

Good luck.

P.S. I wonder to know how you -with no Russian language, - was reading the current site, and decided to write here...mmmmm..

Диарусу

Согласна с вашим мнением, и передала смысл и свой смысл в послании выше на том же нужном иностранном языке.

Благодарю за поддержку....

[Елена Кшанти]

Dear Лена:
When I have told that I want the child, He began to keep away from me

Seems to me, you are sweetheart woman and your husband, probably, too worthy the man. But sometimes circumstances develop so, that the man can not take the responsibility for the future child because does not feel confidence of tomorrow's day. The reason happens that there is no stable work or he can not earn enough money, or is afraid for your well-being. The reasons can be much. But, as a rule, with occurrence of the child, there are also new opportunities. Gods will not leave in a trouble of those who esteems them.
Also to help other essence, to become independent is very good karma. In India it is considered very important.

1. For this purpose it would be good, if you have frankly talked to him, and have explained, that for the woman the child is the self-realization incorporated by the nature, and without it she can not count the life high-grade. Can be, he would understand you and has gone on a meeting.
2. It would be very good, if you have made practice 21 goddess Tara and read her mantra 300000 times. For this purpose you should receive special dedication and to make small ретрит (praktis). Ретрит can be not strict, for example, each morning before sunrise should be read Sadhana and to read mantra not less than 1000 per day, it is certainly better more (on the average 5000-10000 per day).
The goddess Tara is the most active Goddess who helps in overcoming obstacles and execution of your desires. Therefore, if to do it qualitatively and with all sincerity she necessarily to you will help to solve this problem and will change your circumstances to the best.
3. If you now can not make practice of Tara yet try to order Big Pudja this Goddess in good Buddhism a monastery.

Excuse, About food: but I not so like to eat meat, animals it is a pity to me, therefore to advise here am not taken. It is unique, that I can tell, that when you eat meat it will be good if you will read special mantra that this animal has regenerated in the best life. Such mantra is in the Buddhism. If you will use it, it does not become strong accumulation bad karma.
All the best to you.

[Mer]

Диарусу

Нет проблем. Пожалуйста.

[Urmila Devi]

Here needs help not only you but also your husband